Ivy League Memoir: A Family Legacy

As a youngster, I used to listen to my mother tell meUniversity life at Cornell was difficult. More than
how she and her sister grew up in Ithaca, New York.the weather up there was cold.
She was always talking about how pretty it was andAnyway, my grandfather and six of his fellow
would go on and on about the Finger Lakes andstudents were successful in founding the first Greek
the mountains. It always seemed weird to me since ILetter Fraternity, Alpha Phi Alpha in 1906. Back then
grew up in the segregated south. I knew about NewCornell was daunting; though admitted to study, it
York City (I thought that Harlem was the same aswas clear that students of color did not really belong
New York back then) and Brooklyn because I hador feel welcome in the community. At the same time
heard thatGreek Letter Fraternities were a key survival system
a lot of Black folks lived there. Back then I figured thatfor white men. They provided social bonding and
Black folks could not possibly live in places like that,academic support for their members. Logically enough,
living that close to white people and such. On top ofBlacks could not join them back then. What
that it was too cold. Coming from Richmond, Virginiamy grandfather and his friends, now affectionately
this all seemed too strange for me. I could not reallyand reverently known as the founding Jewels of Alpha
understand how Black folk could live that close to
white people.Phi Alpha, did must have been phenomenal. They
As my mother told me more, I learned that mywere courageous enough to say that if we cannot join
grandfather, who died before I was born, won a
scholarshipthe fraternities that make you feel welcome and
to Cornell University back in the early 1900s. Hesupported at Cornell, then we need to form our own.
stayed up there and married a beautiful womanThere
whosehad been an earlier effort to start a fraternity at
family was one of the few Black families in town.Cornell for Black students that was unsuccessful, but
That was why my mother, the older of two sisters,my grandfather and his friends were committed
wasenough to make their goal a reality regardless of the
born there in what I thought was a strange, far-awaysacrifice.
land. And though she is dead now, the romantic visionsAlpha Phi Alpha now has members worldwide and
boasts in its membership so many accomplished
of this cold life in a small quaint college town remainBlack men that it has truly set a proud tradition. There
imbued within me.is so much good that can be said for the organization
Her father faced many challenges as one of the verythat this article certainly cannot do it justice. If any
few Black students at Cornell during that time.readers want to know more I would invite them to visit
Basically, all of the other Black students shared those
challenges as well. I learned that he bondedthe Alpha Phi Alpha website,
with a number of them and decided to start a GreekIn a twist of fate my grandfather seemed to have
Letter fraternity. It seems at that time there weredeeply influenced my fate when my opportunity to
no fraternities for Black students and assimilation intoattend college came.